Now that you know how to properly breathe life into your orgasm… If you missed it see Part 1 Want better sex? Try better breathing
Are you ready to take it to the next level? Great. I want you to try something that will take you and your lover to higher and higher levels of passion…..I gotta warn you though, this might feel a little risky… a little *intimate* perhaps…but I promise it will be so worth it!
Let’s face it; everything is better when we breathe. Usually, we’re not paying attention to it, yet every single day we do it automatically. However, most of us don’t realize that breathing is a tried and true way to heighten pleasure and arousal.
When you breathe deeper in the midst of arousal, you bring more oxygen into the body, which allows you to feel so high and deep nourishing pleasure all throughout your body.
Next time you’re having sex, If you want to feel super connected, invite your lover to share some breaths with you. Begin slowly by synchronizing your breathing from the very start of the sexual act all the way to the end. Pausing gently at the top and bottom of each breath.
Even as the pelvises start rocking, even as the arousal builds and even if the pace of your breath speeds up, stay as close to synchronized breathing as possible while making love, Believe me, doing this is sooooo HOT! You will thank me.
Faster paced breathing will support that steamy energy to build more rapidly. While deeper, slower, fuller breathing will keep you from coming too soon AND while in the peak of a climax it will spread that juicy energy all over your delicious body!
Breathing together can be extremely sexy and deeply intimate. I tell all the couples I work with to sync their breath with one another for a few minutes each day at any hour.
Here’s what happens, when you both decide to match your breathing you begin to unify and balance your energies together.
So often your physical bodies are in the same room yet you may feel worlds apart energetically. Align your breath with your partners for even just a few minutes to bring you both into a deeper experience of harmony and union with one another.
When you take a moment to consciously breathe together in or out of the bedroom, it is very similar to sharing an intimate meditation, you are focused on your breath; you are not speaking, just breathing and feeling the closeness of your beloved.
Give it a try and see how your intimacy increases with your significant other. Set the tone for your sexy time by taking just a few breaths together or totally syncing your breath through your entire sex act. The best part is that it brings you both into the present moment of Now.
P.S. This experience is not only deeply erotic and intimate; it also releases the optimum levels of mood-boosting/bonding chemicals; oxytocin and serotonin. Give it a try, I promise you will be impressed.
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